Well, that was not fun, but I final got the server running. I had to bring in mods in groups, let it get fully started, and then shut down each time.
what do you mean by bring mods in groups? Iv tried just adding one mod at a time still cant get it to restart.
Basically the same thing. I just did like 5 or 10 at a time (depending on their size). It was a very slow process.