Help!!! I dont think im selecting the right place for ARK for windows 10/xbox crossplatform

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    I need desperate help, I have created and had refunded so many servers cause I cant seem to find the correct one i need.

    I am on windows 10 using the Microsoft version of ARK so i can play cross platform with Xbox. I dont think im doing it correctly because the server is not popping up in the server list in the game.

    Can someone please help me find the correct one.


    Thank you,:?: